Episodes

If you don't listen to the whole podcast - here's what I hope you remember. Your life will be much better when you talk to people! And that can be hard - especially cause COVID kept us away from each other, we have screens frying our brains, and every day it seems like life gets more stressful. But, it's important that we prioritize it. The method I refer to in this podcast is HEFE. I also share an excerpt from a Donald Trump speech! Let me know what you think. An easy way to sen...

Ever thought to yourself, "Sheesh, he/she is complicated! I just don't understand them." I'm sure we've all thought this a time or two and we were totally right! Humans are very complicated. It's hard for us to understand each other - it's even harder for us to share with one another what makes it so hard for us to understand one another. In this episode I wanted to share some of my favorite HUMAN QUIRKS. These are things that make the human experience fun but also miserable. For insta...

One of the biggest painpoints is relationships is CONFLICT. We fear conflict more than heights, running out of gas, or public speaking. And it makes sense why because relationships are ESSENTIAL. When they are at threat, then our wellbeing is also at threat. In this episode I outline three of the most helpful ways to navigate disagreement. I've learned these via some of the best resources out there, particularly the book "Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most." Send this to...

In this episode I sit down with Annie and we answer a few different questions, mainly, what are some of the best resources out there to help us become better communicators? My goal with this episode is to travel through history with the power of communication and then spend a little time in the present - exploring great resources and opportunities. As always - life is better when you talk to people. An easy way to send me a message? Click the link here. Support the show Have you enjoyed the p...

In this episode I attack FOUR of the most common self-limiting beliefs I hear about talking to people. With each belief, we'll unpack why it exists, what it actually is, and how to circumvent it. Remember - I'm not a clinician or licensed psychologist - so I won't be writing any prescriptions or giving that advice. But - I am someone who thinks about communication, talks about it with people nonstop, and wants us all to improve. An easy way to send me a message? Click the link here. Support the...

I did an Instagram poll recently and it got my gears turning. Then I had some conversations on the subject - and it got my ears turning more. And wahlah - the new podcast episode. Learn with me as we answer the question - what to do about mentorship? An easy way to send me a message? Click the link here. Support the show Have you enjoyed the podcast? If so, follow it, rate it, and share it with three people: Follow on Apple Podcasts Follow on Spotify Follow on Instagram Subscribe on YouTube I...

Anyone else dread networking? Anyone else ever been to a "networking event" that consists of groups of people standing in a room, business cards out, and looking at each other awkwardly? When do you say what you do? Do you talk about things other than work? Do you one-up people? Or do you just listen? And then after the fact - do you reach out to the person again? How do you even NETWORK?! In this episode, I, alongside Zac Harris, talk about the challenges in networking. We outline how to a...

Ever wondered how to switch your conversation from surface level to substantial? Ever been unsure of how to make it feel like you're actually connecting with someone? Whether at a work meeting, a date, or a family dinner - it's important to be able to ask HiGH QUALITY questions. In this episode I go over 20 proven, level-3 questions that you can use to make any conversation better. Level 3 questions are intended to be after first initiating the convo (hello!) and establishing a conversation (ho...

"Drawing from some of the most pivotal points in his life, Steve Jobs, chief executive officer and co-founder of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, urged graduates to pursue their dreams and see the opportunities in life's setbacks -- including death itself -- at the university's 114th Commencement on June 12, 2005." In this episode, we're going to analyze the most watched speech on YouTube. Our goal is to assess what Steve Jobs did to have the most shared speech in history.&nbsp...

We only get one chance to leave a first impression. The research shows that this one chance matters a lot. In this episode, we'll work through a simple tip that will give you better structure when you organize your thoughts and then stronger impact when you voice them. We're going to provide both theoretical examples and practical examples of the formula, which hopefully gives you an easy ability to implement it! The resources for goals and purpose: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1qOub26Ia...

Ever wondered of a cult leader is able to recruit people to give their lives to a cause? Or how a pyramid scheme creates millions for some while taking millions from most? Or how scammers are able to elicit people's life savings? Today we'll be looking at the dark side of communication - manipulation, gaslighting, and deception. We'll also dive into how to avoid the bad stuff and embrace the good stuff. And how you can help others via their communication to become less susceptible. Want to wat...

We've all been there - an uncomfortable lull, a moment where we're speechless, and the immense pressure of trying to keep conversation going. This is normal because we're human and we're not an infinite language processing model. But, there are ways that we can get better at this and limit these moments from happening. DISCLAIMER - It's OK to sit in silence. This is just for those moments where you want to keep conversation going and you're unsure of how to do it. An easy ...

Communicating effectively will change your life. But, oftentimes, we don't feel confident enough to share our thoughts. Yet if you don't share your thoughts then you're going to live alone, regretful, and unspoken for. So - we're going to avoid that. Instead, here are 10 rules that you can follow to grow in social confidence, build a healthy relationship with social anxiety, and begin to turn your thoughts into words. If you want a PDF version of the 10 rules - you can get it he...

I asked Instagram - "what are the biggest challenges in communication." You all answered! This episode is me hitting all of your questions. An easy way to send me a message? Click the link here. Support the show Have you enjoyed the podcast? If so, follow it, rate it, and share it with three people: Follow on Apple Podcasts Follow on Spotify Follow on Instagram Subscribe on YouTube If you want to share feedback, have a great idea, or have a question then email me: talktop...

We don't stumble into being good at things. Sure - there's raw talent. But, after a few curveballs get thrown into the mix then we need to reach beyond talent into experience and skill. Communication is one of the cornerstones of a happy life. Our business, personal, and relational growth is limited by our ability to articulate what we're experiencing. Opportunities slide away from us as we miss a chance to speak up. Relationships linger longer than needed since we don't know what word...

Are phone calls still a thing? YES! And you can get better at them. In the past few years I've decided that I want to get better at phone calls. Yes, I know people hate them. I deal with a lot of anxiety when I'm about to have a phone call! But I know that with practice and learning from others then I could be better. In this episode I make several phone calls and ask 3 main questions: What do people who are really good at talking on the phone do?What NOT to do on a phone call?I...

For the first time in podcast history - it's time to play some music. Keep your expectations low - but your energy high. This episode is a great reminder of why we do what we do. Also - I wanted to use this episode to update you all on what I've been working on! I started this podcast incredibly passionate and lately I feel like I've been slacking. And I think that's a ME thing, but I also think it's a larger thing we all experience. This episode was a way for me to revitalize ...

Is there anything that beats a good talk with a friend or a loved one? Being able to laugh, share stories, and smile on how the universe has brought you two together. Now try doing that but with people who you don't like, or people you've never met before, or people who you've sworn as an enemy. Jared Seide is the Executive Director of Beyond Us and Them. He has designed, piloted and coordinated council-based programs in prisons, assisted living facilities, youth groups and a variety of non-pr...

He's been on over 500 different stages and he has talked to several cities worth of listeners. Ladies and gentlemen, meet Jason Raitz. Jason and I first came in contact because he runs the "Speak With People Podcast" and I run the "Talk to People Podcast." When I saw this, I need I had to reach out to him. I am so glad I did because he has become an example for me to learn from and grow alongside. In this conversation, expect to hear: one mental move you can make to improve any ...

You know that feeling when you get to hang out with a friend that fills your cup? And y'all could be just chillin' yet you're still having a major blast? Well today we get to hear from one of those people. Trent Howard is a friend, a business owner, and he stood next to me in my wedding. Just like the X-Men, Trent has a super power of his own - community. With a background in petroleum engineering, he decided to take his talents away from the sure-fire financial security of sitting on some ...

More and more people are moving cities. This hasn't always been the case. Historically, we were born in an area, raised in an area, raised a family in that area, and then retired in that area. But this has gotten much different in the modern travel era. Spirit Airlines will give you a ticket for less than what a date night at a steakhouse will cost. Corporations are moving employees from one big city to the other. Tiktok and Instagram solo travelers are inspiring others to pull the plu...

I've always wondered how learning about people online affects our in-person relationship with them. It's a fascinating question that humans have recently had to answer. This episode will raise an eyebrow and leave you thinking about how you navigate your online social life. And it turns out that there is actually some big impacts with how we navigate getting to know people in-person and online. This was a fun episode. I used visual aids (that sorta failed while simultaneously pa...

In 2024 we'll be the premiere podcast on social connection! WHITEBOARD + 2024 adjustments 📝 2023 featured 52 episodes, over 15,000 downloads, and more than 1,600 listeners. In 2024 we’ll be operating as the premiere podcast about social connection for young adults! - now including virtual conversations - 2 episodes per month, instead of weekly - biweekly YouTube specials - consistent solo episodes exploring new topics! Upcoming topics: how to have a good double date, why getting to know p...

For a second I thought about trying to be like Theo Von and riffing with the voicemails and then I realized how hard that would be! Thank you to everyone who sent in a voicemail or wrote a letter! You have made this process a BLAST! Feel free to keep writing in or sending emails! You can reach us at talktopeoplepodcast@gmail.com and you can leave a voice mail at talktopeoplepodcast.com if you click the bottom right microphone icon! An easy way to send me a message? Click the link here. Suppor...